In this deleted scene from last season, Michael and Brandon have siblings Erin and Chad Paine and Tori and Bobby Smith over to tour their new place in Norris. I think also, I feel bad for Michaela and her fertility issues, so it’s just like another hit to her, like hey, you don’t have any kids, so hey, you can be the babysitter. Since it's most likely not the case with Chad, it's not worth mentioning, is it? She didn't ask Michaella to babysit. michaela could have said yes (and asked callie, addie & ellie to babysit, or lawson, we dont know! I hope the Bates family sees this as "spending time with Aunt Michaela" rather than "babysitter Aunt Michaela". He was the couple's second child, and they went on to have eight more children after him. I hope Michaela can speak up for herself and decline to babysit when it's not convenient for her. Good for them, but it’s not “reality” for the majority of us. Are the women not allowed to give a hug or greet guests in a normal way because they are men? We did not get any help and we were not wealthy at all. Exactly. I watched my daughter walk the same journey as Michaela. Holland is Erin and Chad Paine's fourth child, and she is due December. Wow! She explains that she hasn’t been on social media very much, but she wanted to let her followers know what’s happening. It was obviously implied that babysitting was expected. Try to be more gracious Erin. I’m not complaining at all. Hmm, I'm neither offended nor worried, 10:31 and 5:45. The City of New Rochelle, the last home of Thomas Paine, is beginning to undergo something of an economic renaissance. I agree that Erin's comment about babysitters available was insensitive to Michaela. They all seemed stiff and uncomfortable IMO. This is a post for Chad and Erin Paine if they every come across thi... s page. We just don't know. Soooo... it looked like she was taking advantage of Michaela, but not plain out asking, but throwing it out there and putting her on the spot. So teenage boys cannot be around young children? Powered by, Click Here to Visit Ellie's Personal Blog, And Here to Visit Her Blog about the Duggars. Thanks for leaving your comments! Bringing Up Bates stars Erin and Chad Paine are expecting their fourth child. Just wondering. Bates Family November 25, 2013 General On November 2, 2013, we watched the daughter that we still view as a little girl romping around our living room floor, bringing smiles to all, suddenly grow up and launch a new beginning of her life as MRS. PAINE! I feel like Erin put her on the -cringe-worthy-spot! by Michelle Stein. It’s not up to Michaela to babysit or find a babysitter for Erin’s kids. Come on! Seems to be normal for them. I think Erin replied as she did as kind of a joke since everyone invited had 1 to 3 children and where in the world would they get enough babysitters! The Thomas Paine Museum on North Avenue — once the … BTW, why is it assumed the sisters will do the babysitting? That was kind of weird of Erin to ask that, that seemed a little insensitive, and poor Michaela was being nice offering. It's about protecting young kids who can't explain things from possible predators. Copyright © 2013-2020 Chad and Erin Paine. I have 5 children under 7 and 0 babysitters. The couple has not revealed the sex or name of their little one. What about teen brothers? . Nobody left her out it! Not with a hug, usually, but a warm friendly greeting. Doesn't have to be Michaela. So what, Michaela has to watch babies while everyone comes to HER house for game night and has fun playing games? Bringing Up Bates returns to UPtv for season 9 in 2020. When you have small kids “free babysitting” becomes an ongoing joke. It airs at 9 p.m. Thursdays on the Up Network. Why not consider Jackson, Isaiah and Warden? It also makes your life as parents, especially parents of many children, easier! I hope the Kielens won't be relegated to 'free babysitter' status and taken for granted. I have a different take concerning Michaela wanting to babysit. “It’s official, baby number four is on the way!” Erin and Chad said in a statement via UPtv. Monday, October 26, 2020. January 1, 2020 by James S. Kaplan 12 Comments. I am the oldest of 14 and am in my mid-twenties. Free babysitters does not mean that they will keep having kids, it means that you are helping out YOUR family, regardless of the number of kids. Erin Elise Bates was born on May 2, 1991, to Gil Bates and Kelly Jo Callaham. Well, she didn’t plain out ask, but passively aggressively asked and put Michaela on the spot. That is uncomfortable to watch. Each of of Michaela's sisters should guard Michaela's heart. We all are, and we all acknowledge it. We’re a small family that loves making big memories. I don't think that's the case with Chad, but it is not to be dismissed lightly. When I had small children at home and was invited somewhere that the kids were not, I hired a babysitter. Hey, there Negative Nellie. She did NOT say who she was expecting to do the free babysitting. "The younger GIRLS at home babysit..." Childcare doesn't have to always fall on female shoulders. We live in a small, country cottage nestled in the hills of Tennessee. Sorry, I have 3 little ones, if I was invited for a game night, I would ask if there would be a baby sitter too. Charles Steven "Chad" Paine III was born on April 18, 1987, to Charles Stephen Paine, Jr., and Tammy Paine. Many other viewers see the behavior as unfavorable. Otherwise, you are going to be very lonely. lets face it, i dont think any one of them would purposely hurt michaela and with as close as she and erin have always been, chances are they've had many, many heart-to-hearts over the last few years. Michaela is a sweet soul. You don’t have to regard everything this family does with adoration. Erin married Chad in November of … Erin… Care for your children Erin. Not everyone reacts this way, but some do. nice to see michaela and brandon again. Micheala hasn't had a child for 5 years. Sorry to just put it out there and say what everyone else is probably thinking. It would help ratings. Michaela is usually all about taking care of the kids at every family gathering so there was nothing for her to feel hurt about. Right now, it appears that Michaela is focusing on completing her nurses' training. I have never had a babysitter a day in my mothering life, never will, and I hope I have many more children. And I'm not trying to find a sitter Everytime childless couple friends want to throw a get together. They have free babysitters. and maybe it makes her feel better not worse to be around them. It’s reality tv. When a couple faces infertiliity for an extended amount of time, they've likely already explored many options. It’s the parents’ responsibility to find a sitter. \"We have a lot of fun together,\" Erin said of having so many siblings. ""Is there going to be free babysitting? 43. We cry together. Chad and Erin Paine. I don't understand this comment at all. Until then I am childless watching this family do what I cannot. Addallee is going to be 14 and Ellie is going to be 13, not to mention Katie is 19. It's a sweet time together." She is adult Michaela is an adult. My goodness, Erin just takes and takes.Poor Michaela! Even… Article by Bates Family Blog. There are no shortage of babies in the Bates household. Less than one year is too short period for "multiple miscarriages". Thinness can be just as unhealthy. Erin needs to filter her thoughts before they come out of her mouth. Hence, as a grown up themselves, they seek more attention from others to make up for what they missed as a child. “Thou wilt shew me the path of life: in thy presence is fulness of joy; at thy right hand She may have been hinting or she may have not. … I love how everyone stays connected near or far, love knows no distance! However that’s not a determining factor in why people have children. Those two could foster to adopt. We laugh together. They also have one son, 4-year-old Carson, and two daughters, 2-year-old Brooklyn and 1-year-old Everly. It's good for the mental health to be able to spend time with adults without your children. Honestly, so many commenters who didn't read and watch attentively. She said, “Erin, you’re terrible.”. If so, it was a tasteless and awkward joke. … erin did not ask michaela to babysit - she asked if there was going to be free babysitting. Erin recently shared that she tested positive for the virus in August and has had a long road to recovery. It just makes it more special I guess, because she’s just not popping out babies every year. 8:10 PM- It's always so easy to say what other people should do with their lives. Michaela could easily get a baby fix every day of the week. She seemed like she was having a tough emotional time at Whitney's baby shower. Even a "good" kid could be tempted. Or you could just let it roll off. Ask the many people with tragedy in their family because they assumed it couldn't happen to them. Even if Michaella had kids that's a lot to ask. Don’t try to lessen someone else’s hurt. ), but instead, michaela offered to babysit instead of play games. Thankfully, she is feeling a lot better now. Erin doesn’t consider herself to be a marriage expert. The young men could help out, too. \"We do everything together. I’d never ask the host to provide that for me. A number of the City’s tremendous historical resources however, remain neglected. 3:22, you could also say that Michael has never gone through the pain for losing a baby. Erin's Road to Recovery. See more ideas about erin paine, bates family, erin. I hate male-bashing. How rude. Lots of girls old enough to babysit..and you can still throw a couple of boys in there too. Why must she always get the babies cause she doesn’t have any yet? Bringing Up Bates stars Erin and Chad Paine are expecting their fourth child. 3:19, what are you talking about? Or it could be that he is just incredibly busy. 377.1k Followers, 185 Following, 693 Posts - See Instagram photos and videos from Erin (Bates) Paine (@chad_erinpaine) I'm not sure if you are aware of the extent of Tim Robertson's crimes. On her shared Instagram account with her husband Chad Paine, Erin shared a family photo and a life update. In fact, I went out of my way to say that I was NOT saying that. I've watched your family on the internet and you strike me as decent people. It is our prayer that this site will encourage and inspire you in this wonderful journey of life. @3:47- Sorry, Michaela was put on the spot, no matter how you look at it. If it wasn’t Michael, it would be Addie, Ellie or Callie. You are worrying that someone else is wasting their mental energy? Just so insensitive. 6:24 and 1:42. This clip didn't help matters. Yes, I think they’ve chosen to be offended. They are at the perfect age for babysitting. Managed and Powered by Johnson Marketing and Media, Inc. Erin had three miscarriages before Carson. We cry together. The concerned couple said they rushed their little girl to the hospital after she started to run a high fever and … Wow, Michaela just flat out ignored her sisters' husbands when they arrived. (Anyone for a game of knock-the-apple-off-your-spouse's-head-with-a-bow-and-arrow?) Bringing Up Bates stars Erin and Chad Paine are expecting their third child, a girl, they confirm to PEOPLE exclusively. Michaela certainly couldn’t care for that many babies by herself in her home...at least I don’t think she could. It's terrible the way people are so critical of men and boys nowadays. She is an accomplished pianist and has released 5 studio albums. She did not make it sound like she wouldn't come if there weren't babysitters. Erin needs to be mindful that she comes across as insensitive. "Hi, would you like to come to my house for dinner? Furthermore, the fact that she said "even better" when Michaella offered means that she was NOT insinuating that Michaella should do it. What’s so wrong about saying, “Hi. They are human, after all. I wouldn't trust young teens like Callie or Ellie to sit for a newborn. "We used to go into the name books and everything, which is kind of fun. I’m very blessed, but two is wisdom for us both financially and emotionally. I first noticed that in a scene where Josh and Anna Duggar had a couple over for dinner and Josh only shakes the guy's hand and ignores the girl whereas Anna side huggs the girl and ignores the guy. 2:29, no one said anything terrible about the Bates guys. Erin Paine (née Bates) gave birth on Tuesday, November 26, at 5:24 a.m., welcoming her fourth child with her husband, Chad Paine. 3 "Bobby's Happy Camper" January 18, 2018 () N/A: Bobby finally makes the big move to Rocky Top, Tenn., so he … Hey 6:33—it’s just plain easier to have children when there are trustworthy sitters close by! I’ve seen the destructive side for later on with children that have never learned to respect other adults than just their parents. When they were living in Chicago, they had a larger home, so moving to Tennessee meant downsizing. I'm sure Michaela would love to spend some time with her nieces and nephews. Ask Erin, who had multiple miscarriages. She seems to speak without worrying if she’s hurting someone’s feelings or not. Kaity@2:56- I think it completely unreasonable for you to expect that it's the responsibility of the host of a gathering to find a babysitter for your kids. Big families having lots of people around to enable them to have big families with lots of people around to enable big families with lots of people around to have big families with lots of people around to have big families.... seems like a beautiful cycle. Bringing Up Bates Stars Chad and Erin (Bates) Paine Welcome Daughter Holland Grace. I will agree with you that the Bates have babysitters any time they want. That’s incredibly rude and silly. I wish she would remember how she felt back then and see her big sis has not yet had children. You are both correct. Erin gave birth to her 1st child one and a half year after her wedding. It is so difficult, painful, and yet these loving women place a smile on their face and move through their journey with broken hearts.Erin's desire for a babysitter makes it sound like she needs such a break. Yes, want to host a game night then be asked if you are going to babysit. My husband and I had a little difficulty with conceiving and babysitting was my way of getting my baby fix.Mom of 3. Our faith, our families, and our friends are the most important treasures that we have. Erin and Chad Paine have yet to reveal their baby's gender, but they told PEOPLE that they have chosen names. 25.5k Followers, 3 Following, 14 Posts - See Instagram photos and videos from Chad Paine (@paineconstruction) Perhaps she is too used to relying on her older sister? Sep 30, 2014 - Explore Braylen Fleck's board "Chad and Erin Paine" on Pinterest. come on people! Psalm 16:11. In her lengthy post, she writes: I cannot believe how many followers of The Bates, pass judgement!! It is absolutely not too short for multiple miscarriages. Anon 6:33 sounds overprotective and smothering. It's like having best friends around all the time." A little paint, … I think it's nice that Michaela offers to babysit, but hopefully the sisters don't take her up on that. Erin needs to realize that Michaela, on the inside, is hurting, praying and ensduring her journey of no children.Erin chose to have so many children in such few years. Erin Elise Bates was born on May 2, 1991, to Gil Bates and Kelly Bates. Chad and Erin (Bates) Paine took on a fixer upper in Knoxville, and Zach and Whitney Bates remodeled their newly purchased home during the show. I know many teen boys who babysit and are very responsible. She asked if there was going to be babysitting. Erin just came across as totally rude. Erin, made the choice to have children. It can also prevent mom-burnout! I don't think they realize there's a better way. there are pleasures for evermore.” Erin is competitive. We just have 2. Contrary to what you may think, the world does not revolve around you and your kids. Soon enough Erin and Chads oldest will be taking care of his siblings as did Erin in her family growing up. First, Erin should be able to find a babysitter on her own, she is a mother and an adult. Married to Chad Paine with a son and three daughters 4 ... Michaella and Brandon move out of their one-bedroom apartment and into a new house; Kelly and Erin pay the young couple a visit to lend a hand with decorating their new space; Chad offers is job to Bobby. I don't know, choosing to be offended seems like a waste of mental and emotional energy in many (not all) cases. Nobody left Michaella out!! Growing up in a family of 19 kids, there was never a dull moment for her. Enjoy the videos and music you love, upload original content, and share it all with friends, family, and the world on YouTube. Guard your sister's heart through her journey! What a terrible thing to say about the young Bates men. You'll see all the ac… Photo/video courtesy of UPtv. It was so fun! Erin, 28, is due in December 2019. So you are choosing to be offended by her choice to be offended? He often attended the yearly conference in Big Sandy, Texas. Referring to your older sister as a free babysitter was just plain clueless, even if you're just kidding. We’re a small family that loves making big memories. been wondering how they're doing, 10:56 - not necessarily. I know women have that possibility too, but the rates are much higher for guys. Actually, Erin's comments come across as a "complaint" while her gracious sister is standing there putting on a smile and pretending to communicate it is okay if she watches her sister's children while longing for her own children. Our “date nights” are at home with movie DVD’s and popcorn. Is he truly on board with moving near Michael’s family as opposed to his own or just staying in Chicago? Second, Michaela deserves to have adult time with her siblings just as anyone else would, why else would she offer a game night? The house needed a little work and we were able to make small repairs and decorate it together just the way we wanted it. I agree, my husband and I are far from all family and we’re done with kids. 4:04- Regardless of who she was referring to, expecting family members to serve as free babysitters is rather rude, IMO. Paines? If people have not had struggles having children then they don’t think about what they say often not trying to be rude, but not understanding how much words hurt. We all saw that. Erin is just tooo sweet, and I agree, a total taker. Led. Everyone has their own opinion. Celebrity Babies of … Before I had children I loved to babysit friends or family members' children just to be around them. What is "perfect" about the hostess babysitting while the other adults play games. "We have a lot of fun together," Erin said of having so many siblings. Not sure if she technically “offered”? Mar 22, 2019 - Erin Paine, Everly Paine, Brooklyn Paine, Chad Paine, Carson Paine The Bates just wrapped up their annual I Love You Day celebration, and this year's festivities may have just been some of the most unique ones yet. I’m curious about Brendan and this move. I just see people wasting way too much time and energy over being offended by things that don't really matter. Her siblings are probably too nice or just used to her behavior and won’t speak up. I think in large families such as the Bates and Duggar’s, the oldest children miss out on considerable one on one interaction with their parents when every year produces a new sibling. Nothing about reality tv is real. Why? They were only talking and speculating. My gosh the question was directed right at her. Be more sensitive and understanding. Erin has also hurt through multiple miscarriages. It's NOT at all about boys being clueless. Chad and his siblings were home-schooled, and were brought up as active participants of Bill Gothard's Institute in Basic Life Principles. I'd never suggest to someone else what they should do. The girls could take turns so that everyone has a good time. Now boys are too clueless to babysit? Kaity- If your expection is that the host should provide childcare for your kids, you're likely going to be staying home... alot. Nothing wrong with that. I think people are overemphasizing a remark that may have been at least partway joking AND she was with family. She's a full-time student and studying hard...give the woman a break and let the younger girls at home make a few bucks babysitting. Chad? Wow, what a fake scene. Nothing wrong with being a babysitter, just not an appropriate word in this situation. However, Erin shouldn't assume everyone around her will be chomping at the bit to take over for her when she needs a break. The language of the police warrant … Our aim is to post all points of view, but we do not post anything that is profane, insulting, derogatory, or in poor taste. Good to see you.”? What an incredible emotional journey of joy, excitement, love, and yes, tears too! These extra large families only work because they do have huge amounts of help and are quite wealthy. Erin and Chad Paine. And children grow and benefit from having another adult perspective. He was always slim. To me, if my kids can't come, you really don't want me there. ", That’s even worse. I hope I’m wrong; they can be very toxic. I agree Anon 1:27! It’s good for children to learn to respect other adults than just their parents. A few of you have asked how Erin and Chad Paine and their four kids are doing. We love sharing our experiences, our adventures, our challenges, and our happy times with others. Erin, 28, is due in December 2019. I was a better parent because of the sitters that graced my children’s lives. They become care takers far too young and for too long. People will only take advantage of you if you allow them to. Kelly Bates Whitney Bates Erin Paine Bates Family Blog … Hear (and see) Erin Bates Paine's beautiful engagement story! Medical emergencies, illnesses, special events. Charles Steven "Chad" Paine III was born on April 18, 1987, to Charles Stephen Paine, Jr., and Tammy Paine. We live in a small, country cottage nestled in the hills of Tennessee. And yeah, 12:26, you just need to be a bit careful with teen boys, related or not. Crisis: Forgetting Thomas Paine in New Rochelle. Give Michaela and Brandon adult time with the other adult siblings. Even Tori thought it was rude. Erin Bates Paine is a native Tennessean who has lived in the great Knoxville area all of her life. From my perspective, Erin was joking, but Michaela responded seriously. They have a hard time adapting to the real world out there. The BOYS can step up! Erin, 28, is due in December 2019. My kids loved the babysitters who came to play! I agree. I remember when Erin was having miscarriages, before she knew of the blood clotting issues. Nov 11, 2018 - Explore Grace's board "Erin paine" on Pinterest. We worked hard and didn't live at all like these families. However, I think that Erin's choice of words were insensitive, considering their situation with struggling to have children of their own. She asked if there were going to be babysitters. 9:14- If I had invited somone to my home for adult game night and that person asked about free babysitting, even in jest I would be offended and consider it rude. I have not had a favorable impression of Erin, based on some of the things I've seen on the show.